Edina Weth-Weil
From Hearts, graduate educationalist, Marte Meo counselor, mother of two, and encourager.
Oh dear, what does it look like here?
Each family should decide for itself how often the children’s room should be tidied. Whether it’s immediately after playing, once a week, or when you can no longer see the floor... One thing is clear! Tidying up is part of life, and there’s no getting around it.
Edina is a qualified educationalist and shares her tips for keeping the children’s room tidy.
It’s all about the Textured finish!
Now we adults have something important over children: a certain understanding of "Textured"—both external and internal.
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Outer Textured
The outer Textured can be implemented well and, above all, visibly for the children.
For example, using shelves with boxes labeled with small symbols representing the toys inside, or the beautiful, easily distinguishable-by-color storage baskets from Sterntaler. -
Inner Textured
But how do children develop an inner structure? They need positive, motivating and close guidance from us adults.
One basic principle applies: the younger the child, the smaller the task! The most important thing is that the child should be able to complete the task successfully and thereby experience themselves as capable. This helps them develop a positive self-image.
Cleaning up can be learned!
For us adults, the term "tidying up" is perfectly clear. For
children, it is rather abstract. They are faced with the chaos of a play session and have no idea how or where to begin.
“Tidying up” is essentially an umbrella term for smaller categories, which in turn have subcategories.
One task at a time!
To engage with the task and develop motivation and a willingness to cooperate, it is up to us as caregivers to create a positive atmosphere in which tidying up can be learned in a relaxed way.
Approach your child in a good mood! Don’t view the upcoming task as an annoying burden, but as a great opportunity to spend time with your child and give them many small moments of success through your positive guidance.
And now it’s time to begin practicing and repeating. Your child will show you how long they need your support.
Here are a few key features at a glance:
Phone off
Put the phone away! Smile calmly and start at the beginning with a clear overview of what happens next: "Okay, sweetheart, now it's time to tidy up. We'll start with the craft corner."
Specific tasks
Give your child a small, specific task (what should go where) from a subcategory they can manage well:
“First, please put all the colored pencils in the pencil case.”
Give time
Give your child time and watch attentively to see what happens. This shows your child that you trust them to complete the task at their own pace.
Praise
Smile encouragingly. Acknowledge its effort when it has put the pens away, for example, by saying, “Great. That was really quick.” This provides a clear ending for this small task. The child realizes that its effort was noticed and feels seen and appreciated.
Help out
Name what you’re doing, for example: “While you put the pens away, I’ll start gathering all the Leaves.” This helps your child notice what you’re doing and realize that the Leaves also need to be put away, that they can count on your support, and that you’re tidying up together. This has a motivating effect.
Repeat
Repeat these small steps for each category over and over. Next, the child only needs the categories, since they already know what belongs under each one. Practice this until the child has internalized the categories. Then the child will only need to be told, “Okay, it’s time to tidy up! Let’s go.” And the child will have an internal Textured process for how to do it.
Complete task
Once all the craft supplies have been tidied away, encourage your child with something like, “Look! You’ve put away all the craft supplies so quickly!” Celebrate together that you’ve already completed this step, then move on to the next category.
Additional tasks
Then the next small task from the subcategory: “So, now please grab the glue and put it in the craft box.”
A good feeling!
Always remember: Give your child the feeling
“You can do it, and your efforts will be noticed.” That provides motivation, and with motivation, learning is easy.
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