Carolin Braun-Rechlin
Family counselor at “Family at Heart Level,” mother and author.
Baby bed, family bed or perhaps the own little bed? This question is likely asked by many parents who are concerned with the "best" baby sleep and a safe sleeping environment. This article aims to help you not only ensure safe baby sleep and get enough rest yourself, but also to have a relaxed time together.
Table of Contents
- Crib, sleeping together, bedsharing
- How do babies sleep safely?
- 10 tips for safe baby sleep
Cradle, Co-Sleeping, Bedsharing – Where Should the Baby Sleep?
There are many opinions about the parental topic of "crib." It is often recommended that an infant sleep on a separate sleeping surface but in the same room during the first months of life. This model is also called co-sleeping. This seems safer to many, as some parents need time to get used to sharing the bed. However, sleeping on a shared surface is considered more natural and safer. This is called bedsharing.
Whether a parents' bed or a separate crib – what matters is that you discuss this together with your partner and also consider your child's needs to create the ideal sleeping environment.
How do babies sleep safely?
Before going into the various points in detail, a note that the mentioned content can only serve to reduce risk factors when it comes to choking or sudden infant death, a topic that often concerns parents. Regarding sudden infant death – also called SIDS – not all questions about possible causes and risks have been answered yet. However, there are protective factors that you can consider in the sleeping situation.
Did you know?
Regular waking or frequent reassurance in the form of waking or restlessness is a wise protective mechanism of the baby. As a parent, you should not see this as abnormal or as a disorder.
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Do not let babies sleep alone
To quickly respond to the child's needs, such as hunger or comfort, it is advisable to rarely let the baby sleep alone in the first months. Most babies do not need complete silence and feel much more comfortable when they hear that they are not alone. This also allows for quicker response to early restlessness, which usually ends in waking up. Additionally, the sleeping position can be checked more quickly, which is also an important aspect for safe sleep.
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The proper sleeping position
Many babies prefer the tummy position. This is understandable and not unusual, as it gives them a feeling of safety. However, the tummy position is also considered particularly risky¹. Therefore, care should be taken to ensure that the back position is maintained during sleep – especially when the baby sleeps alone.
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Do not “shut off” the child while sleeping
If the child falls asleep while out and about, you naturally want to let them sleep. A natural instinct is to "shield" the child by hanging a cloth or a blanket over the stroller, baby carrier, or car seat. However, this carries the risk of overheating. When the child is asleep, they do not notice that they are overheating. Additionally, it can lead to a build-up of carbon dioxide. In this case, the child breathes in the air they have already exhaled, resulting in poorer oxygen supply.
Expert tip:
Even grown-ups usually find it more calming and pleasant when their familiar partner sleeps beside them in bed. So why should a baby be laid to sleep all alone in its bed?
10 Tips for Safe Baby Sleep
Here are additional tips that you can generally pay attention to:
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Solid base:
Your baby sleeps safely when the mattress does not give way too much. Therefore, avoid risks with waterbeds, sofas, cushions, or similar items.
Responsiveness of the parents:
No influence of alcohol, medication, or drugs on the parents, so that you can quickly respond to your child's needs.
Do not smoke:
Smoking in any form – passive smoking, cold smoke, but also the residues on the Clothing Line, hair, hands, and on surfaces – is harmful to the child.
Room temperature:
The ideal room temperature is between 16°C and 18°C.
Optimal warmth:
The child should not overheat while sleeping. Avoid head coverings, too much Clothing Line, blankets, or Sleeping Bags with an unsuitable TOG rating.
Tip: You can also read more about the meaning of the TOG rating in the magazine article „TOG Ratings“.
Suitable Sleeping Bag:
Choose the optimal sleeping bag according to the room temperature. It should be neither too warm nor too cold. Additionally, a precise fit is very important so that the infant does not slip down inside the sleeping bag while sleeping.
Tip: In the article “Baby sleeping bag: What should be worn underneath?” you will learn how to dress your baby so that it neither feels cold nor sweats.
Avoid blankets:
A blanket can wrap around the child during sleep, which can lead to overheating.
Free lying surface:
The sleeping area should be as clear as possible. Avoid soft toys, pillows, toys, or similar items in the sleeping place.
Enough space:
If you have a family bed, make sure that each family member has enough space.
The pacifier:
It is recommended that children who are not breastfed sleep with a pacifier. However, it is perfectly fine if your baby wants to sleep without a pacifier.
With these tips, you can provide your child with a safer environment for sleeping. If your child shows any unusual signs while sleeping, consult your paediatrician or your midwife.
For parents, it is often difficult to find the best approach. Often, the outside environment causes great uncertainty, which can lead to enormous pressure and stress. Pay attention to what feels right for you, your partner, and the child.
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Sources:
¹ "The correct lying position"
(https://www.springermedizin.de/emedpedia/detail/paediatrie/ploetzlicher-kindstod?epediaDoi=10.1007%2F978-3-642-54671-6_19)
² "Do not “seal off” the child while sleeping"
(Scientific study on this: TASK FORCE ON SUDDEN INFANT DEATH SYNDROME. SIDS and Other Sleep-Related Infant Deaths: Updated 2016 Recommendations for a Safe Infant Sleeping Environment. Pediatrics 2016; 138(5). https://publications.aap.org/pediatrics/article/138/5/e20162938/60309/SIDS-and-Other-Sleep-Related-Infant-Deaths-Updated)
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